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I have to laugh at myself. I am my own worst enemy. I am the biggest block and obstacle. If I didn’t get so hung up on little things. If I didn’t let myself make excuses. If I didn’t let myself procrastinate.

I could take over the world.

I want to take over the world.

I want to inspire THOUSANDS…no…MILLIONS.

I want to help and serve women. I want them to feel good, confident and self assured. I want them to go for what they want. To stop living by a label, i.e. mother, wife, daughter, friend etc and start living life on their own term.

But in order to do that, I need to step up first. I need to feel good, confident and self assured. I need to lead by example. No-one is going to listen to me until I am doing the do.

So why am I holding myself back? Am I afraid of what others will think of me? Am I afraid that I don’t actually know what I am talking about? Like who the hell am I to talk like this. to speak with such authority. Who am I? Am I holding myself back because I’m afraid of the hard work? Well, that hard work is going to feel tonnes better than inaction. Inaction only breeds more inaction. It weakens our muscles. It is a very disempowering position to be in.

What’s the point of all of this?

If I’m holding myself back, if I’m questioning myself, if I’m not living my full potential…


Seriously ask yourself, are you being the best version of YOU that you can possibly be in this moment? Are you living 100% congruently to what you want to achieve? Are you in alignment with your values, beliefs and goals? Are you being honest with yourself?

Sometimes it is really hard to look in the mirror and face our own reflection. We are our own worst critics. We can be so hard on ourselves. We don’t want to dive into any self reflection because we are worried it is going to make us feel MORE shitty.

But denial is not a direction forward. Denial isn’t going to get you where you need to be.

Ask yourself – if you keep doing what you are doing today, where will you be in 1 year, 5 years or even 10 years time? And are you happy with that destination?

We aren’t here for a long time. We are here for a good time.

So are you having a good time? If not, don’t you think it’s time to start?


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