I swear that what I am about to share with you is true.
When I was 15, I went to live in France for 4 months. While I was there, I had my very first kiss. Now, it wasn’t just any old kiss.
This boy was a musician, lived on a vineyard and was really gorgeous.
He took me for a walk through the vineyard on a starry night to this hill top, over looking a lake. The lake was reflecting the stars and the moon. There were trees and vines and French countryside all around. He had his guitar and played while we sat and drank wine. Seriously it was like a scene from a movie. Absolutely perfect.
He turned to me and said “Je t’aime”. And then kissed me.
It was incredible.
That moment was pivotal for me. It was concrete evidence that magic really does exist. It was evidence that amazing romantic moments are available to everyone. It was evidence that life really is the most awe-inspiring adventure we will ever go on.
Not every day will be kissing-a-French-boy-in-a-vineyard kind of amazing.
But they all have that potential.
And you can’t wait for the universe to deliver that moment to you. You have to go out and get it. You have to grab life by the horns and say “let’s go for a ride!” You have to be willing to leap into the unknown and possibly fall in a heap. You have to be willing to get a few bumps and bruises. You have to be willing to have your heart broken.
Why risk the pain? Because until you are ready to risk the pain, you will never be able to experience the pleasure. You can only experience love to the degree you are willing to put yourself out there.
My first kiss didn’t just happen magically one day. It happened because I was about to head home and was wanting to make the most of the time I had left with my new friends. I was worried I wasn’t going to see HIM again, so I left him a crazy message on his phone. I remember how shaky I was when I called him but I didn’t think I had any choice. I could’ve done nothing but I know I would’ve regretted that forever.
What I want YOU to know is that you have this power inside. YOU have the ability to call up the unseen forces of the universe and begin a life-changing tango. Whatever your heart desires right now – you can breathe it into life. But you have to be willing to risk failure and heartbreak. You have to be willing to hear “NO” a thousand times. You have to be willing to put yourself out there and be seen.
I’ve risked looking like an idiot, I’ve risked failure, I’ve risked heart break, I’ve risked money, I’ve risked my reputation….I’ve risked everything for my happiness. And let me tell you – it was worth it. Each and every time. Including when the risks didn’t pay off. Because each time I learned from it.
And that’s all I want for you. I want you to risk it all to live big. To live the life of your dreams. To live the life you are destined for. Because you are worth it.
I know how hard it is to say YES in the face of fear, which is why it is my mission in life to help women overcome that fear. Well, you don’t ever really overcome it, you just learn to make your passion and desire stronger than the fear.
And I can help with that. I can help to unlock your true desires and show you how to navigate through that fear voice. I can help you to take the risks you’ve been dreaming off.
If you want to know more about how working with me will help you to live big, let’s have a chat. click this link to book in a discovery session.
It’s your time to live big. It’s time to take a risk. It’s time to finally do what you are here for.